* Flirting Tours
You have all been there – an alarmingly attractive guy walks towards you in the street, you can see him giving you a look and you think, ‘Well, hello there!’. You feel a momentary flutter in your stomach as you anticipate him starting a conversation and asking for your number. And then the cold wind that follows in his wake hits you as he keeps on walking.
And what about that exchange at the bar that had so much potential, but came to nothing? You know that one too. He is at the bar, you’re at the tables with your girlfriends, and there is definitely flirty eye contact. You shift in his direction, send him a few smiles and then pull out the best move from your flirting arsenal: the hair twirl! But he walks out the door without so much as a backward glance.
You are attractive, you are smart and you are confident (well, it appears that way, but truth told you’re a little shy underneath), so what gives? Were you reading the signals wrong? If not, what happened? Should you have gone up to him? But what on earth would you have said? Confusion reigns.
If you never want to wonder again whether you’ve misread signals, feel you’ve missed an opportunity to meet a potential date, or felt stuck on how to approach someone, let alone flirt with them, then get ready because I am the woman who’s going to liven up your love life.
Join me on a night out with my Fearless Flirting Tours around London. I will teach you how to flirt, and to approach anyone you want without fear, by arming you with top tips and techniques and a whole new way to view this dating business.
On a two-hour group tour of London’s little-known flirting grounds – galleries, bookshops and supermarkets – you’ll soak up my flirting tips and then road-test them on passers-by under my watchful eye. I’ll teach you three methods of approach that work every time – so be prepared to take home some phone numbers. I’ll explain why flirting doesn’t need to be stressful and you will see for yourself that the more you relax, the more enjoyable it will be – flirting is fun, seriously!
By the end of the night you will have a whole new skill set and be able to clearly recognise flirting signals, know how to start a conversation with a stranger, and how to view rejection as a super-efficient partner finding tool (you’ll just have to come on a tour to learn more about that one!).
And on your way home, see if you can’t catch the eye of that attractive man on the opposite train platform – and watch the magic unfold. (I kid you not – this happened to a recent attendee and the object of her desire missed his train to come to her side of the platform and ask for her number! Yes, dates ensued.)
It all starts with a wee walk, and a little flirty talk. See you on the next one?
Thursday, 12th December – 6:45pm
Friday, 10 January – 6:45pm
Thursday, 30 January – 6:45pm
Friday, 14 February (alternative V-day event) – 6:45pm
“A compelling mix of anthropological research, fun tips for relaxed flirting and hilarious anecdotes from the effervescent Jean Smith, the Flirting & Walking tour is the ultimate icebreaker. Last night I learned how to start a conversation with a stranger and how to get out of a bad conversation gracefully – surely two of the most useful skills ever!” – Diane, 30
“What fun – I don’t think I’ve ever seen a group of 12 people bond so quickly, chat so frankly or root for one another so warmly in such a short space of time. Highly recommended and highly successful – one girl got a very attractive musician’s phone number and another found a new friend to go off clubbing with!”- Laura, 40